Boil the pasta: Bring a large pot of salted water to a rolling boil. Add the pasta and cook until just shy of al dente. Reserve at least 1/2 cup of the starchy cooking water before draining.
Prep the shrimp: Pat shrimp dry with paper towels.
Season with a big pinch of salt and a few grinds of pepper. Dry shrimp sear better and stay juicy.
Heat the pan: In a large skillet over medium-high heat, warm 1 tablespoon olive oil and 1 tablespoon butter until the butter foams.
Sear the shrimp: Add shrimp in a single layer. Cook 1–2 minutes per side, just until opaque and lightly pink.
Remove to a plate. Do this in batches if needed to avoid crowding.
Build the sauce: Lower heat to medium. Add remaining olive oil and butter.
Stir in garlic and red pepper flakes. Cook 30–60 seconds, until fragrant but not browned.
Deglaze (optional but great): If using wine, pour it in and simmer 30–60 seconds, scraping up any browned bits. Let it reduce by about half.
Add lemon: Stir in lemon zest and juice.
Taste and season with salt and pepper. The sauce should be bright, buttery, and well balanced.
Toss with pasta: Add drained pasta to the skillet with a splash of reserved cooking water. Toss until the sauce lightly coats the noodles and turns glossy.
Add more pasta water as needed to loosen.
Finish with shrimp and parsley: Return shrimp to the pan and toss just to warm through, 30 seconds. Sprinkle in parsley. Taste and adjust salt, pepper, and lemon.
Serve: Plate immediately.
Top with extra parsley, a drizzle of olive oil, and grated Parmesan if you like.